So, it all started the weekend before last.
We’re all hanging out at my friend Justin & Kristie’s place…having a suprise birthday party for our friend Jacqueline….Her boyfriend Marc put it together.
People were invited…some people were not invited, and yet they showed up anyway.
In the past, Joi has talked about how much she hated Jacqueline. How much she loved Marc’s previous girlfriend, and thought she was much better than Jacqueline.
Of course, to Jacq’s face, Joi talks about how great she is.
So, we’re all hanging out, and Jacqueline comes into the kitchen to find Joi all over Marc, with Marc not welcoming these advances. Jacqueline runs off as Joi flashes her a ‘what’s your fucking problem’ look, and another friend of ours goes after Jacqueline
At this point, I didnt know what was going on…all that I know is that something upset Jacqueline. I go out with Bethany and Marc in search of Jacqueline, to try and make sense of things. Bethany & I talk privately with Jacqueline, and smooth things out…telling her that nothing is going on between Joi & Marc, and more importantly, trying to get her to not confront Joi face-to-face, or doing anything to harm Joi or her property.
We head back to Justin’s place, now that Jacqueline was calmed down. I don’t let her borrow my phone because I knew she was going to try and call Joi.
I tell her to just let it rest, and just let it go.
We get back, Joi is gone, and Jacqueline asks Mike if she could borrow his phone. He lets her, not knowing who she is calling. Jacqueline calls Joi. We’re not sure what is said between them, but Joi calls Mike a little while later upset and crying and pissed that he allowed Jacq to call her. Which, he of course had no knowledge about.
It’s also mentioned how Joi was threatening to kill other people in the room – telling them in person that she could kill them in their sleep. Nice.
A couple of days later, Justin, Mike, and I get voicemail from Joi… we’re apparently the cause of all her problems, and the reason that her sanity is slipping.
However, her manic depression, suicide attempts, bipolar disorder, alcoholism, and refusal of treatment apparently has nothing to do with it.
As it stands now, apparently the three of us are the Unholy Trinity in her life. We are the root cause of all the drama. I guess Justin, for not inviting her to his house in the first place, and then she showed up. Mike for allowing Jacqueline to use his phone without his knowledge. And myself for preventing Jacqueline from doing anything bad to Joi. Now, I’m not sure who’s to blame for Joi being all over Marc in the first place, but I’m sure she’ll come up with someone.
I feel sorry for Joi. She brings alot of things onto herself. She recently got beaten up by some guy from her past, whom she refuses to tell anyone about. I’m thinking it’s more obvious that she beat herself up…causing bruises all over her body. She has tried to cut herself, and kill herself on several occasions.
She only comes around when she wants to complain about how terrible her life is, however she won’t follow anyone’s advice…. randomly fucking people, or fucking people whom she publicly talks bad about (talking about how terrible Sean is…how horrible he is, while no one else sees this side of him).
There’s a lot of people in her life who’s tried to help her, but she doesnt want help. Just pity. She works at a children’s store in the mall, and I’m really scared about her freaking out on kids, and trying to do something to harm someone there.
I used to care…and I guess I still do. But when she makes up her own mind about the situation, and how we reacted after she left (and falsely too), it makes me realize that it’s all in her mind, where it’s always been. The part of her that I cared about died along time ago. Or maybe it never existed in the first place.
